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Celebrity Reality Check: My Mindset Coaching Strategy for Kendall Jenner

Although you cannot always relate to the problems of these big name celebrities and superstars, a-lot of times it’s really easy to see how mentally weak some of them are, and how much help they need in terms of developing a more dominate mindset, and bulletproof confidence and certainty. I’ve done something very different in this episode, and I am sure it will rub some of you the wrong way. What I’ve done is taken Kendall Jenner, and broken down my strategy of how I would work with her if given a chance. I got the chance to see some of her mental weaknesses, and I know how these weaknesses will affect her if not addressed. How many “celebrities” have we seen meltdown and flame out after controversies or adversity? In the episode, I talk directly to Kendall, and give her a few doses of reality along with my prescribed course of action to help her take the game over and be mentally unstoppable. I’ll be doing these celebrity reality checks on more athletes and celebrities as they expose their weaknesses to the general public, so stay tuned and give me your feedback.

209 Time Stamps:

(2:05) Welcome to the Sports Motivation Podcast
(3:35) The Kardashian inspiration
(6:19) The celebrity reality check and practical game plan
(6:52) The reality of being a celebrity observer
(7:43) What we see on tv is not always real
(8:25) The celebrity breakdown of Kendall Jenner
(10:26) The reality check for Kendall Jenner
(10:51) “You should know that people don’t like you already”
(12:02) Gameplan step #1- Get you aligned
(12:38) Create a scouting report
(13:39) Establish a vision
(15:00) Who do you think you have to be?
(15:32) Establish your role in the family
(16:22) Take control of your career
(17:41) Create a power circle
(18:01) Establish systems for areas you’ve decided to dominate
(19:15) Create an anticipation playbook
(20:18) Become comfortable making other people uncomfortable
(21:20) Plan responses for every situation
(22:58) Establish new emotional patterns
(24:38) Increase your perspective

 

How to get other people to take you more seriously

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As you move more aggressively towards becoming the best, you’ll have people who you trust and love start to take you for a joke…maybe they question you, maybe they laugh or mock your goals and visions…Maybe you’re even trying to take a friend along with you towards greatness but they don’t seem to be responding the way you want. How do you handle that? How do you stay focused even when they aren’t taking you serious? How do you ignore that? In today’s episode, I break down a simple formula and mindset that will help you to overcome that challenge.

208 Time Stamps:

(1:30) Where are you at with your goals?
(2:24) Story about my high school days
(3:39) My college walk-on days
(5:30) Reality: your family and friends do not know sh*t
(6:52) Get clear on your outcome
(7:24) Get clear on your why as they align with who you are
(8:50) Educate yourself on your decision
(10:16) Create a plan to get you there
(11:10) Work your ass off daily towards your goals
(13:11) Keep your mouth shut in the beginning
(13:55) Show off when necessary to shut others up
(14:28) Robert Greene: 50th Law
(15:08) Develop an always hungry mentality
(17:05) Get results
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206: The Film Room: Floyd Mayweather Mindset, Pt. 3: Why Loyalty + Brutal Honesty are keys to Floyd’s Success

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What are the REAL reasons that you want to accomplish your goals? What are the deepest dark motivators that you don’t tell anyone? It’s about time you come to terms with them so you can finally become the version of yourself you are destined to be. The only way to do that is by owning who you are unapologetically. This is what Floyd does brilliantly. Listen to this episode to find out his mindset towards women, vegas and strip clubs, and why I believe that is what makes him undefeated and TBE. 

206 Time Stamps:

(2:30) Welcome back to the film room!
(3:05) Mindset is 80% of the equation
(3:32) Recap of the Floyd Mayweather Film Room Series
(5:00) The battery analogy
(7:37) Do you act in alignment with what you think is important?
(10:48) Floyd keeps it real about his desire for money
(14:10) Tim Grover- Relentless
(14:35) Tiger’s Downfall
(16:38) Be honest with yourself
(17:05) How to be more loyal to yourself
(17:10) Sit down with a pen and paper and write down the reasons you do what you do
(18:03) Say what you think and feel more often
(19:30) Email me at [email protected] the answers to these questions
(19:36) Why do you play your sport?
(19:45) What are the darker reasons behind why you play your sport?
(19:50) Why are you so afraid to admit those reasons?
(20:05) How much more free would you be if you could be yourself?
(20:21) Where in your life have you been the most fake?

 
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205: The Film Room: Floyd Mayweather Mindset, Pt. 2: The Keys To Chess Like Thinking: Calculated + Strategic

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Are you playing chess or checkers? Do you just take action, or is your action calculated and strategic? It’s part 2, and in this episode I show you how Mayweather is 50-0 because he planned it that way and he planned it like a war general plans to win war. It’s complex. I show you in this episode how to apply Floyd’s mindest to be a beter planner, more calculated and reach results faster without half the frustration. 

Episode 205 Time Stamps:
(2:30) – Welcome back to the Film Room Series!
(3:25)-  Recap from Episode 1
(4:18)- Floyd and 50 Cent
(5:00)- Floyd Struggles to Read Promo
(6:48)- Marry the Result, Divorce the Strategy
(7:40)- Play Chess not Checkers
(8:27)- The Hard Work Illusion
(9:52)- Think Strategically
(12:00) Don’t Give Up on the Goal, but Don’t Marry Yourself to a Particular Strategy
(13:52) Actions Impact Outcomes
(15:42) Embrace Reality
(16:40) Trust Yourself rather than Other People
(18:32) How to Become Calculated and Strategic like Floyd
(18:37) Key 1- Define your End Game and your Core Values
(19:21) Key 2-Picture your End Game Every Day with the Emotion Already Being Attached to it of it Already Being Real
(19:56) Key 3- Study your Competition
(20:16) Key 4- Craft your Plans According to Reality
(20:51) Key 5- Adjust Quickly and Often if Necessary
(21:36) Key 6- Never Relent on your End Game because of Doubters and Naysayers (22:23) What is your Ultimate End Game?
(22:38) What is your Strategy for How You Plan to get to your End Game?
(23:03) What is your Plan B and C?
(23:14) What Faulty Believe have you been carrying around that makes you despise those people who are witty and sharp?
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204: The Film Room: Floyd Mayweather Mindset, Pt. 1: How to Build CERTAINTY

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When studying and analyzing the legendary Floyd Mayweather, one of his core principles and traits is what I call CERTAINTY. It’s like confidence on steroids… It’s about KNOWING from your core that you’re the best. But how did he create this characteristic? And is this a quality that anyone can adopt, or is he just a cocky guy who was born that way? I show you how and why he’s so certain, and how you can be the same way.



Episode 204 Time Stamps:
(2:30) Welcome back to the Film Room Series!
(3:39) “Shyness is a fluid quality” – Robert Greene (50th Law)
(5:40) Floyd. MONEY. Mayweather.
(6:40) Cognitive Biases.
(8:17) The “Liking-Bias” | Charlie Munger’s, “Poor Charlie’s Almanac”
(11:44) Floyd is “arrogant”
(11:55) Clip #1: “They can’t f— with me”
(15:47) Clip #2: There’s NO ONE else.
(16:45) Clip #3: So easy.
(18:02) Clip #4: Dedicated to the craft.
(19:01) Clip #5: I will always find a way to win.
(20:11) Clip #6: Stay FOCUSED.
(22:31) Clip #7: Pressure.
(25:08) Clip #8: Training Affirmations.
(25:40) Clip #9: “Can’t no fighter beat me!”
(27:03) Clip #10: Winning.
(28:18) Clip #11: Victor Ortiz.
(28:52) Clip #12: Manny Pacquiao.
(29:29) Clip #13: Ricky Hatton.
(30:27) If you want to adopt this level of Certainty, take these steps.
(30:40) Step 1: The DECISION to be great.
(31:37) Step 2: Work your tail off.
(31:53) Step 3: NOTICE, and highlight, everything that makes you confident and certain.
(32:28) Step 4: Positive Affirmations.
(33:01) Question 1: What is your certainty level?
(33:26) Question 2: What do you say to yourself or others, that drains your confidence?
(34:00) Question 3: What is the reason why you talk yourself down?
(34:45) Question 4: How will you build certainty TODAY?

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203: How to end procrastination and laziness forever

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How often do you skip out on workouts, check out early in training and practice, or put off your most important projects? How much money do you think you’ve lost so far as a result of laziness and a lack or urgency? In this episode, I show you how to wire yourself to be different from everyone else who is lazy and puts off what is most important. I show you how to train yourself to get things done and make the progress your vision needs you to make.

Episode 203 Time Stamps:
(1:21) Do you procrastinate?
(1:51) Rory Vaden’s, “Procrastinate on Purpose”
(2:57) A tough decision that caused procrastination: “Should I quit?”
(4:47) We naturally AVOID PAIN to RECEIVE PLEASURE.
(6:07) Are you skipping your workout today?
(8:45) Did you hit the snooze button today?
(11:12) How to end the procrastination and laziness that prevents you from succeeding.
(12:47) You must train yourself—to continuously motivate yourself.
(13:38) #1: Become GOAL-ORIENTED.
(14:30) #2: Every daily action is meticulously-framed.
(16:41) Investor’s mentality: Asymmetrical risk and reward.
(18:39) “Blood in the water”
(19:37) Karen Pryor’s, “Don’t Shoot the Dog!”
(21:44) #3: Seek extreme mentor-ship.
(24:12) #4: Call BS on yourself—don’t wait.
(27:30) #5: Put your money where your mouth is!
(32:06) Be afraid of the right things…

Want my top 100 books list? Visit imnotyou.com/bookclub

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202: How to read more books and get more out of them

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Do you buy books but not read them? Do you struggle to make practical use of what you read? In this episode, I share my belief system and practical approach towards reading, and show you how you can read and actually apply what you learn to 10x your results.

Episode 202 Time Stamps:
(1:21) Don’t be an idiot…
(4:06) Do you read just to READ?
(4:50) The most important thing = MINDSET.
(7:17) Mindset shift #1: All these books are owned by me, and are now my lifetime resources.
(9:47) “Niyi, I can’t afford books…”
(11:36) Mindset shift #2:  I don’t have to read from start to finish.
(13:51) Mindset shift #3: Books are not “expensive”.
(16:10) Mindset shift #4: If someone I admire/trust recommends a books to me, I buy it and don’t think twice.
(20:31) The strategy: How to read more and get more out of it.
(20:57) #1: Know what the F@$k you want from life!
(21:13) S/o to Robert Greene; when your MOTIVATION level is high, you learn FASTER.
(22:40) #2: Know specifically and precisely, what is preventing you from getting what you want.
(23:18) #3: Buy books that teach you how to overcome these setbacks.
(24:24) #4: Before you read, remind yourself why you’re reading this book.
(25:45) #5: I read in spurts and chunks.
(26:19) #6: Reinforce it, and repeat it.
(30:17) #7: Create a BOOK VAULT.
(31:31) What beliefs hold you back from reading?
(32:02) What can you take-away from my G-Code?

What are your top books? Email me! [email protected]

Want my top 100 books list? Visit imnotyou.com/bookclub

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201: How to prioritize and make decisions faster

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How do you get it all done? What happens when you have a lot of goals, but some goals take up all of your time? I share my experience with prioritization, and how to set up your life to maximize results, instead of treading water.

Episode 201 Time Stamps:
(1:21) The world needs more people like YOU!
(4:11) Can you really just focus on ONE thing? | Gary Keller, “The One Thing”
(5:12) Life is like a Thanksgiving meal…
(9:16) Every single area of your life matters.
(11:17) #1: Set a vision for each category of your life.
(12:32) #2: Identify which areas are MOST important to you.
(15:08) #3: Rank, in terms of importance.
(16:20) #4: Commit the most time, to the most important.
(17:42) #5: Systemize your other categories, for steady growth.
(18:26) #6: Renovation time.
(20:18) “What do I MOST want?” & “What’s in my way?”
(21:14) “What does this specific area need from me, right now?

Do you think you’re the right fit for my program? Find out HERE: Imnotyou.com/killerinstinct

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200: Relationship Issues, Part 1: How to get your wife on board with your goals and vision

Look at all of the most successful athletes, most of them struggle at some point in their careers with relationship issues. None of us are immune. How do you get your wife or partner on board with your goals? What do you do when they complain that you spend too much time at the gym or at work? How do you stay on track and manage your time while making them happy? It’s not easy, and I’m certainly no Dr. Phil… but I am a husband, and I can share with you what I have learned to be the major keys in staying ambitious without sacrificing your relationships. Enjoy part 1 of this series, and click the link in my bio to listen.

Episode 200 Time Stamps:
(1:20) 4th quarter mentality
(2:56) Preface: I am not a relationship guru.
(4:15) How to get your partner on board with your goals.
(4:33) Do you feel “held-back”?
(6:10) Here’s a reality check for you.
(7:03) Take ownership of YOUR s**t
(8:16) “Those who don’t feel control, are the least happy.”
(9:07) Martin Seligman, “Learn Helplessness”
(9:42) What to expect on this mini-series | Problem -> Root Cause -> New Plan
(10:56) Today’s ROOT CAUSE | Ray Dalio’s, “Principles”
(12:43) Your partner might feel like you put your work, before them…
(13:58) Do you have to prioritize things this way?
(15:59) Breakthrough: Focus on your partner’s FEELING.
(17:45) Following? Let’s design today’s PLAN
(18:47) 1: Learn your partner’s ‘love recipe’ | Gary Chapman’s “5 Love Languages”
(20:40) ASK. LISTEN.
(23:22) 2: Spend regular amounts of time with your partner.
(25:46) 3: Do whatever it takes to get your partner what he/she needs.
(28:58) Simon Senek’s, “Leaders Eat Last”
(29:40) Stay tuned for more relationship realities.

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199: How to handle problems and challenges like a boss

Do you still look at problems and challenges like they are a bad thing? Do you complain about them? Do you wish they weren’t there? Do you look for people to feel sorry for you? If you do, this episode will be a wake up call. You can’t afford to look at problems the same way everyone else does. In this episode, I show you how to approach them differently; like a boss. Like a champion. Like someone who is actually going to succeed.

Episode 199 Time Stamps:
(2:10) How to deal with problems and challenges
(4:20) You haven’t reached your potential yet…
(6:16) What most people do, Pt. 1: They complain
(6:52) What most people do, Pt. 2: Run away from the pain
(7:33) What most people do, Pt. 3: Problems “aren’t that bad…”
(7:58) What most people do, Pt. 4: They make the problem “justified”
(8:50) What most people do, Pt. 5: Blame-game.
(9:09) What most people do, Pt. 6: Braggadocios people.
(9:41) Do NOT fall into any of these six categories.
(11:30) Problems are SIGNALS. | Ray Dalio’s “Principles”
(11:53) Challenges force you to step your game up.
(14:16) “Situation” > “Problem” | Tim Grover’s, “Relentless”
(14:35) Make it look easy!
(15:30) How to approach problems in a new way
(15:40) Solutions, Pt. 1: Recognize the problem, and get PISSED about it.
(16:29) Solutions, Pt. 2: CALM yourself down.
(16:48) Solutions, Pt. 3: ANALYZE and SELL yourself on solving the problem.
(17:46) Solutions, Pt. 4: Look ahead
(18:00) Solutions, Pt. 4: Identify the underlying, root cause of your problem.
(19:06) Solutions, Pt. 5: Create a PLAN.
(21:57) What problems need solving today?